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Since writing Find A Date, But Guard Your Wallet about online dating scams, I continue to see stories in the news. Two stories in the news got my attention today, and I thought I should revisit the subject and re-post some tips.
The first story comes from my old neighborhood paper, The Boston Globe. A woman in Portsmouth, NH was duped out of $13,000 by a person in Malaysia. She was using a “legitimate” dating site where she started conversing online, texting and having phone conversations with a charming suitor. Later he explained how he was having financial difficulties, so she began wiring money to the man.
The second story happened in Maryland, and has a bit of a happy ending because they actually caught the scammer! A man scammed a 64 year old man out of $24,000 and they caught the alleged conspirator as he was trying to collect another $46,000 from the man. This scam involved a man posing as a woman on the dating site, using photos of women he found online. He approached this older gentleman and pretended that he was an actress and needed money to go to Africa to star in a film.
Both of these stories are classic scams that we all need to watch for online. If someone befriends you and then tells any story where they need money – watch out! Here are some of my tips that will help if you want to start looking for love online.
1. If a potential date asks you for a loan or any financial information, immediately report them to the dating site. The scams usually involve befriending the victim and then saying that they are experiencing financial trouble. Watch out for this.
2. Never wire money to any person you meet online – not on dating sites, not on eBay, not on Craigslist!
3. When signing up for online dating, go with a well-known dating site and get referrals from friends on which sites they use.
4. Once signed up to a dating site, stay incognito for a while. That way, if you run into someone who’s dishonest or makes you uncomfortable, you stay safe.
5. Design your dating profile with care—think about the image you want to project and NEVER, under any circumstance, post personal information, such as your full name, address and phone number.
6. Vet potential dates by checking to see that their profile information matches other online information, such as their LinkedIn profile.
7. When meeting a date for the first time, make sure to meet in a public place and DO NOT give them your personal address. Trust your instincts—if there are red flags, you are not imagining things. End the date.
Stay safe out there!
Tracy
@McAfeeCyberMom on Twitter
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Tags: dating scams, romance scams